Questions & Answers

Questions & Answers

Where and how can I meet you?

I’m based in New York City and am primarily available there, but I love to explore!

All information related to my whereabouts will be posted on the Travel page and announced through my newsletter. If you’d like to me to come to you, I’m passport-ready and adore a good Fly Me To You!

Rates of all donations for my time can be found here (Consideration). After reading through my website and getting to know me, please send in an inquiry via my Contact page to arrange a date, or reach out via email. I usually respond within 24-48 hours.

Where is your incall?

For incalls, I can book us an upscale hotel room anywhere that’s convenient for you– I don’t have a permanent incall location, so I can be more flexible, hygienic, and accommodating!

It’s not required, but very much appreciated if you’d be kind enough to add a bit to my donation to cover the bill.

How do FMTYs/Sponsored Tours work? I’ve never done that before!

So you’d like to bring me to you! What a delight.

I recommend Sponsored Tours for those living in a major city I have interest in visiting, who’d like to meet for a few hours at most. I only accept these on a limited basis. For Fly Me to You dates, I can meet you exclusively anywhere in the world, and for as long as you like. Business trip? Vacation for a week? Let’s do it!

Once we decide on where, when, and for how long we’ll be meeting (the basics), I’ll ask for a deposit. Once I receive it and we’re confirmed for our engagement, I will immediately arrange and book my own travel unless you’re flying me out on a private plane or similar, and will also arrange my own lodging (if needed). Once everything is booked, I’ll let you know the total and request that be sent over as well. Once that is done, we are all set and confirmed, and I’ll be seeing you in your corner of the world!

How should I present your donation?

Cash is always king, but I do also accept Crypto and alternative methods for trusted suitors.

Your donation must be presented immediately at the start of our date, usually in an unsealed envelope. If you use an envelope, please don’t write on it– I love sending letters and cards, and will reuse it!

If we are meeting in a public space, please tuck the envelope away in a gift bag or greeting card for the utmost discretion.

Why do I need to give my name and screening information?

This is strictly for my own safety, and is standard practice. The more safe I feel, the more genuine, pleasant and satisfying will be experience for the both of us. You’re quite the gentleman, but there are some creeps out there! Your privacy is assured, and I delete all personal info from my secure encrypted system after our time together.

What screening options do you accept?

These are the generally the only options I accept, though in exceptionally rarely cases I am open to alternate forms of employment verification.

  1. Two references from established independent providers you’ve seen recently. Include names, website links, social media, and verifiable email addresses.

  2. A photo of your Government-Issued ID or Passport, to my email: helloivyquinn@proton.me

  3. Any one of these, in addition to one of the above: Your LinkedIn profile with 500+ connections, work ID, company bio, photo of your business card, OR profiles from veritable third party sources. (e.g. SEC filings, Forbes, Bloomberg, etc.)

I’ve never done this before and I don’t have any references, this is scary! Can we still meet?

Yes! I’m very open to meeting people who’ve never done this before, or being your “first” for a new experience, and can gladly guide the process.

What is your deposit and cancellation policy? How can I send a deposit?

If our plan requires a deposit, or if you wish to send one, I will give you a full list of avenues when we confirm, including non-electronic options as needed.

  • A minimum of a 25% upfront deposit is preferred for all dates, and required for FMTY dates, touring dates, dates with special requests, and dates 3 hours and longer. If you choose not to send one and I receive another request with a deposit, that request will receive priority.

  • Applicable flight and/or accommodation expenses for our date are to be added to the deposit, or sent after once those details are confirmed.

  • In the extremely rare event that I have to cancel, your deposit will be refunded. Deposits are otherwise non-refundable and non-transferrable, and forfeited in the event of you cancelling or rescheduling our date.

  • All methods of sending the deposit that I accept apply to the total donation of your date, with only the remainder due at meeting, excluding gifts and gift cards, which are considered separate.

The following cancellation policy is applicable as soon as we confirm a date and time, and should be sent within 24 hours of canceling.

  • ​​If our date is cancelled within less than 48 hours of the meeting time, the cancellation fee is 75% of the donation for the engagement. If you cancel within a week of our date, a gift or gesture to show respect for our relationship is appreciated in lieu of a fee.

  • For FMTY and touring dates, if cancellation occurs within 1 week of the booking, the cancellation fee is 50% of the donation for the engagement. If our touring, sponsored, or FMTY engagement is cancelled within 48 hours of our planned date, you are still responsible for the full donation as the cancellation fee– 100%. My time when traveling is extremely limited and difficult to recoup on short notice, and I often shape the my travel plans around our engagements.

  • The cancellation fee is separate from my deposit and donation, and can not be applied to a future engagement. If you are unwilling to respect my time and the cancellation fee, I will not entertain any attempt to reschedule or further contact.

I accept many discrete and easy options for sending all deposits, expenses, and fees.

Do you see women or couples?

I do! I’m very bisexual and am happy to engage with people of all identities.

Are you open to duos/doubles or groups?

Totally! Let me know who else you have in mind and let’s arrange something electric.

Are you kinky?

I can be, and enjoy a variety of roles. But if you’re inquiring about a scenario, please keep it classy!

Do you take outfit requests?

I happily take requests for specific outfits or to model my collection of lingerie for you– for a small upfront fee, plus the cost of any new garments or stylings.

Are you willing to sign a non-disclosure agreement?

Yes. I understand the value of discretion, and you can be sure that everything you tell me is in confidence.

Can you send me a photo of your face? Is that really you?

As much as my lovely visage would be a selling point, I value privacy above all else. If you think I might be too good to be true, there’s plenty of material on my end to ease your mind: day-to-day snaps from my Twitter, exclusive content from my OF, glowing reviews, and the fact that all of my ads are verified on my end by photo and ID.

Can I use you as a reference?

Yes, but please let me know you’re doing so beforehand. I will generally accept serving as a reference once for every time we’ve seen each other in the past year. A gift or tip with your request goes a long way!

How can I show that I’m respectful and considerate of our shared privacy?

To my future gentleman or lady, please be polite, courteous, and respectful when you contact and interact me. It goes without saying that all e-mails that include vulgar language or efforts to negotiate my requirements will be deleted. I expect you to be a gentleman at all times– I am respectful and caring, and expect you to exhibit the same qualities. If I feel disrespected, my well-being is endangered, or you exhibit uncouth behavior at any time, especially brought on by intoxication, it will bring our time to an immediate conclusion. The same applies if there is another person present we did not previously agree upon meeting with. I will arrive to our date minty-fresh and showered– if you don’t have time to do the same beforehand, feel free to excuse yourself at the start of our date to freshen up.

It is imperative to respect each other's privacy in all respects. The only people who should know about our time together is us, online or otherwise, even if by chance we run into each other during our daily lives. Violating my privacy by filming me during our date is a criminal offense without my consent, and photographing or recording me will also terminate our meeting with no refund provided. Any violation of my trust will result in the immediate and permanent end of our relationship and addition to our industry blacklist. Please use common sense when it comes to discretion– my social etiquette is impeccable and I am always discreet.