Questions & Answers
Questions & Answers
Where and how can I meet you?
I’m based in New York City and am primarily available there, but I love to explore!
All information related to my whereabouts will be posted on the Travel page and announced through my newsletter. If you’d like to me to come to you, I’m passport-ready and adore a good Fly Me To You!
The rates of all donations for my time can be found here. After reading through my website and getting to know me, please send in an inquiry via my Contact page to arrange a date, or reach out via email. I usually respond within 24-48 hours.
Where is your incall?
For incalls, I can book us a 4 or 5-star hotel room anywhere that’s convenient for you–I don’t have a permanent incall location, so I can be more flexible, hygienic, and accommodating! It’s not required, but very much appreciated if you’d be kind enough to add a bit to my donation to cover the bill.
How do FMTYs/Sponsored Tours work? I’ve never done that before!
I suggest Sponsored Tours for individuals in a large metro area, who are looking to meet for a few hours at most. Please note that I only offer these selectively. For Fly Me to You dates, I can meet you anywhere in the world, and for as long as you like. Business trip? Vacation for a week? Let’s do it! You can find my minimums for FMTY dates here.
Once we decide on where, when, and for how long we’ll be meeting (the basics), I’ll ask for a deposit. Once I receive it and we’re confirmed for our engagement, I will immediately arrange and book my own travel unless you’re flying me out on a private plane or similar, and will also arrange my own lodging (if needed). Once everything is booked, I’ll let you know the total and request that be sent over as well. Once that is done, we are all set and confirmed, and I’ll be seeing you in your corner of the world!
As for what we’ll get up to, you can make all the plans, or leave it up to me! I’m happy to act as our concierge, and I love to plan tailored getaways (and staycations).
How should I present your donation?
Cash is always king, but I do also accept Crypto and alternative methods for trusted suitors. BTC is currently preferred.
Your donation must be presented immediately at the start of our date, usually in an unsealed envelope. If you use an envelope, please don’t write on it–I love sending letters and cards to my loved ones, and will reuse it! If we are meeting in a public space, please tuck the envelope away in a gift or greeting card for utmost discretion.
Thoughtful touches and creative envelopes (chocolate box, patisserie takeaway, lingerie shopper, leather bag, signed first edition, buried treasure map, etc.) go a long way.
Why do I need to give my name and screening information?
I know you’re a gentleman, but this is strictly for my own safety, and is standard practice. The more safe I feel, the more genuine, pleasant and satisfying will be experience for the both of us. Your privacy is assured, and I delete all personal info from my secure inbox after our time together.
What screening options do you accept?
These are the generally the only options I accept, though in exceptionally rare cases I am open to alternate “old school” forms of employment verification. Please send at least one, or as many as you are able.
Two references from established independent providers you’ve seen recently. Include names, website links, social media, and verifiable email addresses.
A photo of your Government-Issued ID or Passport, to my email: helloivyquinn@proton.me
Any one of these: Your LinkedIn profile with 500+ connections, work ID, company bio, photo of your business card, OR profiles from veritable third party sources. (e.g. SEC filings, Forbes, Bloomberg, etc.)
I’ve never done this before and I don’t have any references, this is scary! Can we still meet?
Yes! I’m very open to meeting people who’ve never done this before, or being your “first” for a new experience, and can gladly guide the process.
What is your deposit and cancellation policy? How can I send a deposit?
If our plan requires a deposit, or if you wish to send one, I will give you a full list of avenues when we confirm, including non-electronic options as needed.
A minimum of a 20% upfront deposit is preferred for all dates, and required for FMTY dates, touring dates, dates with special requests, and dates 3 hours and longer. If you choose not to send one and I receive another request with a deposit, that request will receive priority.
Applicable flight and/or accommodation expenses for our date are to be added to the deposit, or sent after once those details are confirmed.
In the extremely rare event that I have to cancel, your deposit will be refunded. Deposits are otherwise non-refundable and non-transferrable, and forfeited in the event of you cancelling or rescheduling our date.
All methods of sending the deposit that I accept apply to the total donation of your date, with only the remainder due at meeting, excluding gifts and gift cards, which are considered separate.
The following cancellation policy is applicable as soon as we confirm a date and time, and should be sent within 24 hours of canceling.
If our date is cancelled within less than 48 hours of the meeting time, the cancellation fee is 75% of the donation for the engagement. If you cancel within a week of our date, a gift or gesture to show respect for our relationship is appreciated in lieu of a fee.
For FMTY and touring dates, if cancellation occurs within 1 week of the booking, the cancellation fee is 50% of the donation for the engagement. If our touring, sponsored, or FMTY engagement is cancelled within 48 hours of our planned date, you are still responsible for the full donation as the cancellation fee– 100%. My time when traveling is extremely limited and difficult to recoup on short notice, and I often shape the my travel plans around our engagements.
The cancellation fee is separate from my deposit and donation, and can not be applied to a future engagement. If you are unwilling to respect my time and the cancellation fee, I will not entertain any attempt to reschedule or further contact.
I accept many discrete and easy options for sending all deposits, expenses, and fees.
Do you see women or couples? Are you open to duos or groups?
Totally! I’m very bisexual and am happy to engage with people of all identities. Let me know who else you have in mind and let’s arrange something electric. I also have a few friends I LOVE doing duos with, if you’d like some options.
What will you be wearing? Do you take outfit requests?
I’ll arrive dressed to blend in for the occasion, the season, and the level of subtlety required for our rendezvous. Discretion is key, usually. I’ll also be minty-fresh and showered–if you don’t have time to attend to the same beforehand, feel free to excuse yourself at the start of our date to freshen up.
I happily take requests for specific outfits or to model my collection of leggings and/or lingerie for you– for a small upfront fee, plus the cost of any new garments or stylings.
Are you willing to sign a non-disclosure agreement?
Yes. I understand the value of privacy, especially for high-profile individuals, and you can be sure that anything you tell me is in confidence. I am happy to sign NDAs, and have done so before. Please send it to me in advance so I can give it a thorough read. All of my communication is done via securely encrypted avenues, and I handle all of your information with utmost discretion and care.
Can you send me a photo of your face? Is that really you?
As much as my lovely visage would be a selling point, I value privacy above all else. If you think I might be too good to be true, there’s plenty of material on my end to ease your mind: day-to-day snaps from my Twitter, exclusive content from my OF, and the fact that all of my ads are verified on my end by photo and ID. My identity remains a well-kept mystery to any onlookers–just between us!
Can I use you as a reference?
Yes, but please let me know you’re doing so beforehand. A gift with your request goes a long way!
How can I show that I’m respectful of you and our shared privacy?
Like any encounter, ours thrives on mutual respect. I curate my correspondence carefully: Clear communication is appreciated; crudeness is not.
Privacy is paramount. Our encounters are for our memories alone–no recordings, no photographs, no social media footprints. Should our paths cross unexpectedly in Manhattan's maze or elsewhere, at most we'll share that knowing glance that lovers do–acknowledging everything while revealing nothing.
Any behavior that compromises safety, comfort, or privacy will end our encounter immediately, especially if brought on by excessive intoxication. Common sense and social grace are non-negotiable elements of our dynamic. Consider me like that hidden speakeasy with no sign–exclusive, and operating on trust.